I think sometimes we all take for granted how blessed we are. It is easy to do. We are hung up on our problems. Our problems are happening to us, so they feel so much bigger than what they really are. I have the opportunity to help at my church's food pantry. And I never cease to be amazed at how I leave being so thankful for what I do have...unlike the days I get crabby about the stuff I don't have.
I grew up on food stamps, food pantries, clothes from goodwill, donated toys, glasses from the Lions' club, and public aid health insurance. I know what it feels like to have to shop at the food pantry. While God has blessed me with being able to financial take care of my child, I never forget about how hard my mother struggle before we moved to Medora and she remarried.
In this materialistic world, it is so easy to get caught up in the newest gadgets, coach purses, latest concerts, etc. We are part of the me generations where we over indulge ourselves. I am so guilty of that. I have a shopping problem that is out of control ask my credit card or husband. We all try to justify it. "Well I work hard so I should play hard." "I didn't get a lot growing up so I am indulging myself now."
I think we should rethink it. I think we should stop indulging ourselves and help others. Before you spend another $30 on going to the movies. Think about buying food for a food pantry or toys for a toy drive. I am not saying you can't ever treat yourself. But try treating others. You will be amazed at how much better you will feel about where your time and money goes.
PS I helped a lady and her grandmother who was deaf/mute through the food pantry. Then I helped them load their car afterwards. I invited them to our church's Imagine drive. It is a drive where everyone in your house gets a new coat, each child gets a new toy, and you get a food basket. She told me how she came last year. But by the time she got to the front of the line, there were no coats in her size. She was using a blanket as a coat. A church member gave her the coat literally off her back. The lady tried to refuse and the member said no I have another one at home. This lady teared up while telling the story and how much it meant to her. So think about that story. Think how one small act of kindness can affect a life. Give back. There I am off my soap box.
